Top 10 Questions Wedding Guests Always Ask (and How to Answer Them)
By Weddings By Wendi – Your Texas Hill Country wedding planner
Attending a wedding often comes with a set of common questions guests tend to ask. Knowing how to respond can enhance the experience for you and your fellow attendees. Here’s a helpful guide to the top 10 questions wedding guests frequently ask and how to answer them.
1. What should I wear?
Your attire depends on the dress code specified in the invitation. If it’s formal, opt for elegant options. For casual weddings, comfortable attire is ideal. Don’t hesitate to reach out to the couple or their family for clarification if needed.
2. Can I bring a plus one?
This depends on the invitation. If your invite explicitly states a plus one, it’s fine to bring someone. If not, check with the couple. They usually appreciate your respect for their guest list.
3. What’s the schedule for the day?
Typically, the wedding program will include timings for the ceremony, reception, and other events. If you’re unsure, ask staff members or refer to any provided materials.
4. Where should I park?
Most weddings provide details regarding parking in the invitation or on a wedding website. Look for signs when you arrive, or ask other guests for directions if needed.
5. Are there dietary options for guests?
Many couples consider dietary restrictions when planning menus. If you have specific needs, it’s advisable to inform the couple ahead of time. Catering staff are usually prepared for various dietary requirements.
6. What’s the best way to congratulate the couple?
A warm hug, a heartfelt message, or a simple “congratulations” is always appreciated. You can also consider giving a card or a thoughtful gift after the wedding if you weren’t able to do so at the event.
7. Can I take photos during the ceremony?
Check if the couple has requested an unplugged ceremony, where guests refrain from taking photos. If there’s no indication, you can ask a nearby guest or respect the photographer’s directions.
8. Where is the restroom?
Restroom locations should be marked, but if not, ask a staff member or fellow guest. Understanding where facilities are can help you navigate the venue smoothly.
9. Are children invited?
The invitation usually indicates whether children are welcome. If not specified, it’s best to ask the couple’s family to avoid any misunderstandings.
10. When do I have to RSVP?
Typically, RSVP dates will be mentioned on the invitation. It’s important to reply promptly to help the couple finalize their guest list and seating arrangements.
By being prepared with thoughtful answers to these common questions, you can ensure that you enjoy the wedding and contribute positively to the celebration. Engaging with your fellow guests about these topics can also foster a friendly atmosphere during the event.
